The Retirement Mirage — Why Waiting 20 Years to Live Is the Ultimate Risk
- Barry Rubin

- Dec 2, 2025
- 1 min read
You’re 35, maybe 45, and you’re already counting down the years until retirement. You’ve got the salary, the savings plan, the investments — but not the joy. So you call it “strategic.” You call it “smart.” But let’s be honest — it’s survival.
You’re not planning for the future. You’re planning your escape.
Your retirement plan is really a surrender plan: “I’ll tolerate this for 20 more years, and then I’ll finally start living.” But what if those 20 years are your life? What if the future you’re saving for never arrives?
We glorify delayed gratification, but there’s a difference between discipline and denial. Working toward financial freedom is wise — but sacrificing emotional freedom along the way isn’t.
The real risk isn’t running out of money. It’s running out of time.
Imagine designing a life where your career supports your joy now, not someday. Where the work you do energizes you instead of depleting you. Where “retirement” isn’t a finish line — it’s a footnote in a well-lived story.
You don’t have to choose between meaning and money. You can build both — when you’re guided by alignment instead of fear.
Don’t spend decades surviving a life you could be thriving in. Your best years aren’t behind you or waiting ahead — they’re available the moment you decide you deserve them.
Your life isn’t on layaway. Live it now.




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